Need advise!!!

[Wight witch]

Warning I'm about to rant a bit!!!

OK here I go deep breath...... I just got a really rude message from one of my mates telling me that our friendship is over coz I've belittled her for the last time but the thing is I don't have a clue what she is talking about!!!
Here's the next bit I got stood up by my best mate last Sat and I was angry at him but I got to the stage when I couldn't be bothered to be angry anymore so when we went out last night I asked my other best mate if I should invite him & she advised me it was a good idea to make up and be "the better person". But last night when we did go out she got angry at me for spending time with him and ignoring everyone else (which I have checked with others there who have said I didn't) then she got on my case saying that I was silly for just forgiving him when he let me down but here's the best bit...she did exactly the same last Sat too since she was supposed to be there & she even planned the night with me!!!!

So am I a crap friend and don't realise it or are my friends just being wierd and over reacting?!!

[Kneetroll]

I have friends like that. Best thing to do: ignore them until they realise they're being silly and come around. If they don't, leave them be for a bit. The more you try and "fix" things by the sounds of it, the worse your friend will probably make it.

[matt]

Answer me this, please:

Why does your gender seem to fall out over stupid things?

[DreamDangerously]

hey hey, not all of us do, just the more highly strung of our sex.

[Fassbender Fan]

lol.

To be honest girls are a pain in the arse, I despise my gender at times but you're right Matt we do seem to fall out over stupid things at time. I think we over analyse situations and become too emotionally attached.

Wight witch - I've been stood up/let down by my friends countless times and chances are I've done the same, at the end of the day you need to think whether you're overeacting or whether your friends are worth the effort? If they are, talk to them about it, if not then why give them the time of day? If you've done/said something to piss them off ask them what it is, try the mature approach

[Wight witch]

Why does your gender seem to fall out over stupid things?

You're right the male approach is much more simple *punch* "don't do it again"...over.
I'd just like to point out that one of the people in question is a guy!!!!

sambola86 said:

lol.

Wight witch - I've been stood up/let down by my friends countless times and chances are I've done the same, at the end of the day you need to think whether you're overeacting or whether your friends are worth the effort? If they are, talk to them about it, if not then why give them the time of day? If you've done/said something to piss them off ask them what it is, try the mature approach

Thanks for you're help you are fab!!!!
To make matters worse at the mo my mobile isn't being friendly so when I text people I don't know whether they're ignoring me or just didn't get the message!!! Not good for a person with VERY fragile emotions at the moment!!!!!

Ohh new development my guy mate has been telling me for ages that he wants to be with me and now he's broken up with his girlfriend I'm willing to entertain this idea (not that much of a bitch no matter what me friends think) we've been talking about getting together which is cool, well today I saw him with his ex and it was first thing and she lives ages away so my guess is she stayed over!!!! Probably me over reacting but still upsetting!!

Everything is going wrong at once!!!!!!

[kittygobonkers]

awww sorry to hear things are a bit poo for you at the moment.....i'm not too good with advice so the best i can do is give you a reassuring hug.....*HUG* ;D